How to Make Your Child Feel Deeply Loved — Every Single Day

Dear mindful parent,

Have you ever wondered…

“Does my child know how deeply I love them?”
“Do they truly feel it in their heart — not just hear the words?”

You hug them. You feed them. You buy them books and enroll them in the best classes.

And still, some days you see it —
The doubt in their eyes.
The quiet distance.
The “You don’t understand me” look.
The tears after school, the meltdowns before bedtime.

And in that moment, you wonder…

“Am I missing something?”

🌱 What Makes a Child Feel Truly Loved?

Children don’t understand love the way adults do.
They don’t measure it in money, effort, or even sacrifices.

They feel love when they feel:

• Seen in their emotions

• Heard in their stories

• Safe when they mess up

• Accepted when they’re messy

• Valued even when they’re not performing

And all of this begins not in grand gestures — but in everyday presence.

🌼 5 Daily Ways to Help Your Child Feel Loved

1. Put Your Phone Down and Your Eyes Up

Even 10 minutes of eye-contact-filled attention, without distraction, can fill your child’s heart with warmth.

“I see you.”
“I’m here.”

That’s love.

2. Say ‘I Love You’ When They Least Expect It

Not just when they do something right. Say it:

• When they spill something

• When they’re angry

• When they’ve made a mistake

“I love you — no matter what.”

That’s love.

3. Be Curious, Not Controlling

When they push back, misbehave, or shut down — ask:

“What are you feeling inside right now?”
“Do you want to talk, or do you just need a hug?”

That’s love.

4. Create a Gentle Daily Ritual

A bedtime story.
A “How was your heart today?” question after school.
A walk together in silence.

Routine creates emotional safety.
And that’s love.

5. Love Them in Their Language

Some children feel loved through words.
Others through hugs, help, play, or gifts.

Observe what lights them up — and offer it freely.

Love is not about how you express.
It’s about how they receive.

💖 You Don’t Need to Do It All — Just This

You don’t need to be perfect.
You don’t need to fix every mood, solve every problem, or prevent every tear.

You just need to show up — again and again — with calm, care, and connection.

That’s what your child will remember.
Not what you bought them.
Not the school they went to.
But how it felt to be loved by you.

And that? You already know how to give.

💫 A Gentle Call to Action

If you want to strengthen your child’s self-worth and help them feel unconditionally loved — every single day…

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Because when children feel deeply loved, they grow into their strongest, kindest, most authentic selves.

With love and deep belief in you,
Parul Singhal
Founder, Parenting Shastra