Personalised Parenting Program
Tween & Teen Turnaround
Stop the daily friction, decode the sudden shift in your child's behavior, and build mutual respect before the distance becomes permanent.
Who this is for
This is for you if
If the shift has already started at home, you'll recognise most of these.
Simple requests trigger pushback
Homework, screens, meals, getting ready: each one consistently brings debate, resistance or complete avoidance.
Talking back and shutting down
Your child has started talking back, slamming doors, or answering with dismissive one-word replies.
You're stuck in nag mode
You're constantly repeating yourself and policing habits just to get basic cooperation, and old consequences now breed deeper rebellion or withdrawal.
The distance is growing
You react with frustration, then feel drained and guilty, and you can sense the emotional distance widening.
What to expect
The outcome you're working toward
Cooperation and connection that hold, without raising your voice or repeating yourself endlessly.
Effective communication that lands, without you having to raise your voice or repeat yourself endlessly.
De-escalation tools to halt emotional blowups, both yours and theirs, before an argument spirals out of control.
Restored emotional connection and a peaceful environment where your child feels safe opening up about their challenges, peers and internal pressures.
A stronger foundation for the future during the crucial 8–16 window, so your relationship stays intact and resilient into adulthood.
What's covered
From clear diagnosis to a changed dynamic
DNE Brain Mapping for parent & child
Personality mapping for both the child and the parent who spends the most time with them, a compatibility analysis of exactly where the two personalities clash and why, and root-cause analysis that separates what looks like misbehavior from what's actually driving it.
Stop parenting, start nurturing
Why your current approach isn't working and what actually moves this child, the communication style that works for them replacing the one that hasn't, and practical approaches for the specific conflict situations this family is facing.
What's included
Everything in the program
- DNE Brain Mapping AssessmentFor the parents and children, as required.
- Certified DNE ReportsDetailed reports for those assessed.
- 1:1 Sessions with the coach75–90 minutes each: the debrief, the philosophy shift, personality, compatibility, root-cause analysis of conflicts and practical guidance on your specific situations.
Bonus
One year of access to the Parenting Foundation course
For a full year you get complimentary access to the Parenting Foundation course, so support continues long after the course ends. Alongside it, a complimentary program walks you through emotional mindset, champion mindset and the core parenting principles that hold under pressure, plus the everyday habits that keep the change alive at home. It is built to help you stay consistent, revisit ideas when you need them and keep growing into the parent your child needs.
The journey
How the turnaround happens, step by step
From daily friction to a home built on mutual respect, here's the path you'll follow.
Book 1 on 1 Call
Start with a call to understand the friction at home and what your family needs most right now.
DNE Brain Mapping
Personality mapping for parent and child, a compatibility analysis, and root-cause analysis of the conflicts.
1:1 coaching sessions
Work through the debrief, the philosophy shift and the communication style that fits this child, in 75–90 minute sessions.
A year of support
Complimentary access to the Parenting Foundation course for a year keeps you supported as the new approach takes hold.
Dedicated 1:1 Coach Handholding
Get priority access to continued coaching post-course, an accountability partner by your side to drive real, lasting results.
Ready to turn tension into teamwork?
Book your 1:1 call to get clarity on your child's behavior and how to rebuild cooperation and respect.
From the blog
Reads for parents of tweens and teens
Turning arguments back into conversations
Why simple requests spiral into conflict, and how to break the pattern without more shouting.
Read articleWhy the cooperative child suddenly resists
Individuation and changing cognitive wiring explain the shift, and point to what actually helps.
Read articleRebuilding respect before the distance sets in
Small, consistent shifts that reopen communication during the crucial 8–16 window.
Read articleQuestions parents ask
Tween & Teen Turnaround FAQ
What is the Parenting Shastra course?
Parenting Shastra is an online recorded parenting course you can go through at your own pace, whenever it suits you.
Is this really just a phase my child will grow out of?
The shift between 8 and 16 is the onset of individuation and changing cognitive wiring, not simply a phase. Without upgrading your approach to match their growing need for agency, the friction and disconnect tend to deepen rather than pass.
Who takes the DNE Brain Mapping assessment?
Both the child and the parent who spends the most time with them, as required. The compatibility analysis then shows exactly where the two personalities clash and why.
What do the 1:1 sessions cover?
Each 75–90 minute session with the coach covers the debrief, the philosophy shift, personality, compatibility, root-cause analysis of conflicts and practical guidance on your specific situations.
What is the bonus included?
Complimentary access to the Parenting Foundation course for one year, so you have ongoing support as the new approach takes hold.
How do I get started?
Book your 1:1 call. The program is designed around your family's specific situation.




